Have you ever wondered how to use a suction cup dildo? Suction cup dildos are extremely popular and for good reason but, for the uninitiated, the process of using one might be a little daunting. Well, fear not, this comprehensive guide will give you all the suction cup dildo tips you need to get the most out of your experience. From how and where to attach the suction cup to all the different ways to use the dildo, to how to properly clean and store your toy, and more, we’ve got you covered! So get ready to learn everything you need to know to embark on a safe, fun, and super sexy suction cup dildo adventure!
What Is a Suction Cup Dildo?
A suction cup dildo is a dildo with a strong suction cup attached to its base. That suction cup means you can attach the dildo to smooth flat surfaces like floors, walls, chairs and more for super fun hands-free use. Suction cup dildos are incredibly versatile and are great for both solo and partnered use.
How to Make a Suction Cup Dildo Stick
One of the keys to successful suction cup dildo use is having your suction cup stick to your chosen surface. Here are some tips for the most stable experience possible:
- Choose your surface well: A suction cup needs to be able to form a good seal with the surface you attach it to and it can’t do that with porous or textured surfaces so make sure to choose a solid, smooth surface.
- Clean everything first: Dirt or dust can keep your suction cup from forming that tight seal with the surface you’re attaching it to. This is why you want to clean both the dildo and the surface right before you try to attach it. You can just wipe them down with a damp cloth.
- Don’t be afraid to get a little wet: Seriously, a little bit of moisture can help the cup form a seal. Just add a very small amount of water or water-based lubricant to the suction cup’s rim right before you attach it.
- Press it down: Press the suction cup firmly against the surface and hold it there for 30 seconds to create a secure seal.
Where to Stick a Suction Cup Dildo
Now that you know how to stick your dildo onto a surface, the question becomes what surface do you stick it to? I’m happy to report that in this regard, the world is your oyster. You have a bevy of fun options and what you ultimately choose will end up depending on what is available in your specific home, what your physical abilities are, and how you want to use your toy. So, without further ado, let’s talk about where you can stick your suction cup dildo.
In the Shower
Showers are pretty great for this because they are typically made of smooth, flat surfaces. You can use the wall or the floor just be sure to wipe everything down first as residue from shower products could leave things slippery. That could be dangerous and it could keep your dildo from properly attaching to your surface of choice.
If you are using a dildo that features any motorized components make sure it is safe for use in the shower before turning on the water so you don’t damage the toy.
The Hardwood Floor
A smooth sleek hardwood floor is an excellent place to attach a suction cup dildo. TBH, any very smooth flooring can work including laminate, marble, or tile. If you aren’t sure if your floors will work well, give them a try before you want to play with your toy – a dry run if you will– so you will know for sure.
With a floor you really only get the one angle but you can experiment with how you position yourself. You can play with sitting, squatting, lying down, kneeling, and more!
On a Table or Desk
Tables and desks give you some options for angles as you can attach the dildo to the top surface, the sides or legs, or even the corners, and experiment with different positions, angles, and even depths of penetration.
Use a Mirror
Some folks enjoy the visual component of using their suction cup dildo with a mirror. This takes some finesse but can be super sexy. It can be done with a wall mounted mirror or a mirror that has been placed on the floor, either way you get to watch yourself enjoy the ride. Not only can this be fun for the user to watch but for the exhibitionists out there it can also create some super-sexy selfie opportunities.
The important thing to remember is that a mirror is glass and could shatter. Proceed with caution when pairing your dildos with a mirror.
In the Bedroom
For folks in possession of a smooth solid headboard and a longer dildo, it can be fun to play with attaching the dildo to the headboard. Not only does this give solo users a fun way to use their suction cup dildo but for partnered play it allows for secure hands free while you both get to stay comfortable in bed. Play with where to position the dildo and where to position your partner for a DIY threesome without having to find a third person!
On a Door
Something that is in just about every house that offers some fun dildo attachment options is a door!
Obviously the most stable way to mount something to your door is to use a securely closed door. For this method you want to attach the toy high enough that you can stand with your back to the door while using it. There is another option however, it requires a little finesse and a thicker door but if you feel like you’ve got both, you can stick your toy on the edge of the door. Why? Doing this allows you to experiment with positions where the legs can be on either side of the door making it easier to play with deeper penetration than in possible when you are just utilizing a flat surface.
On a Washing Machine
Adding vibration to penetration can feel really great and attaching your suction cup dildo to your washing machine is an ingeniously simple and incredibly powerful way to do just that. How this can work for you depends on your particular washing machine. For top-loading machines you will want to mount the dildo on the front or side of the washing machine and play with riding it doggy style. For front-loading machines you can also attach the dildo to the side of the machine but you also have the additional option of placing it on top and sitting on it.
Use a Mount
If you really want to keep things simple and convenient, you can use a mount specifically designed for holding a sex toy in place. From sexy and luxurious dildo mount cushions to sturdy and supportive benches and stools designed to make it easy for users to get into position and enjoy their toy, there are lots of products that exist for this exact purpose.
Tips on How to Use a Suction Cup Dildo Correctly
Now that you have some ideas about where and how to attach your dildo, let’s talk about how you can get the most out of using it. Here are some suction cup dildo tips to ensure a safe, sexy, and fun experience!
Get the Lube Ready
One thing you definitely want to make sure you have on hand before you get started is lubricant. When it comes to maximizing pleasure and minimizing discomfort, lube is the ultimate bedroom accessory. This is especially important if you plan on using your dildo anally, because while vaginas can self-lubricate, anuses cannot, making a good lubricant a vital part of safe and enjoyable anal play. That said, in the name of both comfort and safety, I advise using lube no matter what orifice you choose. If you’re using a silicone toy, you will definitely want to pick a water-based lube. Once you have your lube, slather some on both the toy and the orifice you intend to penetrate.
Get a Partner Involved
You don’t have to use your suction cup dildo all by yourself. Adding it to partnered play can allow for some super-fun positions and experimentation. It's like a threesome without all of the scheduling!
Find the Right Size
When shopping for a dildo it’s important to select the right size for your comfort and experience level. Selecting a toy that is too girthy will often result in not being able to use the toy you’ve chosen because you cannot insert it comfortably while choosing a toy that is too short might result in an unsatisfying experience. To determine what you might like in terms of girth If you try inserting your fingers into the orifice you intend to penetrate the toy with. Then you can use the number of fingers you can comfortably insert to guide your choice.
In terms of length, it can be helpful to err on the side of too long because if the toy is too long you can always hold back on how much you insert but if the dildo is too short, you are just left with an unsatisfying purchase.
Learn to Ride Properly
Once you’re ready to get down to business you want to make sure you know how to ride a suction cup dildo. First things first, take your time inserting your toy. Move slowly and allow yourself to savor the sensations and get comfortable. From there you can experiment with the movements and motions that work best for your body and your toy.
Try Different Positions
One of the great things about suction cup dildos is just how many positioning options they give you so don’t be afraid to explore! Experiment with different positions for the toy and for your body and explore different angles. Find what feels best for you then mix it up. Once you’ve mastered one position move on to try something new like figuring out how to use a suction cup dildo doggy style. Explore, play, and have fun!
Couple With Other Toys for a Good Time
Suction cup dildos can be lots of fun on their own but they can be even more fun when you add in another toy. If you are using your dildo vaginally consider pairing it with a clitoral vibrator, nipple clamps, or an anal plug to enhance the experience with diverse sensations. If you are using the dildo anally you can add in a vibrating cock ring or a stroker if you have a penis or a G-spot stimulating vibe if you have a vagina. Mix and match your toys until you find your favourite combos!
Surfaces to Avoid When Using a Suction Cup Dildo
When using a suction cup dildo it is super important that the suction cup sticks to the surface you attach it to. That’s why you want to avoid any textured or rough surfaces that the suction cup won’t be able to form a seal with. Additionally if you are using a tiled wall, floor, or counter, avoid the spaces between tiles as they will also prevent a seal from forming. Stick to smooth surfaces only.
Taking Care of Your Suction Cup Dildo
Proper cleaning and storage is important both from safe use and long term maintenance of your suction cup dildo. Be sure to thoroughly wash your dildo with gentle soap or toy cleaner and warm water before and after each use. Most dildos don’t have motors but if yours does, do not submerge it in water. Instead clean it with a wet washcloth.
In order to prevent any possible mold or mildew growth be sure your dildo is 100% dry before you put it away. When storing dildos it is a good idea to store each dildo individually in its own box, bag, or case. This protects the toy from dust and dirt and also keeps toys of different materials from possibly damaging each other when stored together.
Takeaways
Using a suction cup dildo can be a lot of fun, especially if you take the time to learn how to properly use one. Choosing a proper surface, exploring different angles, and trying different positions can all make the most of the suction cup dildo experience. Be sure to incorporate lubricant and take the time to clean your dildo before and after each use to keep your suction cup dildo play as safe and comfortable as it is sexy.
FAQs
How to Mount a Suction Cup Dildo?
- Choose a smooth, solid surface with no texture, bumps, or breaks
- Wipe the surface and suction cup clean
- Add a SMALL amount of water to the rim of the suction cup
- Press the cup down and hold it in place for 30 seconds
How to Ride a Suction Cup Dildo?
- Apply lubricant to the toy and your body.
- Slowly insert the toy
- Find the movements and motions that feel best for your body.
- Experiment with different positions for both the toy and your body.
How to Clean a Suction Cup Dildo?
- Wash with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner before and after each use.
- Be sure the dildo is completely dry before putting it away
- Store each dildo separately in its own bag, box, or case.
How to Unstick a Suction Cup Dildo?
- Gently lift the edge of the suction cup to break the vacuum seal
- If this does not work (this is rare) slide something thin like a credit card or dental floss between the suction cup and the surface to break the seal and remove the toy without damaging the surface.
