Collection: BDSM Collars & Leashes

More On Leashes and Collars

If you want to play around with restraints, nothing says submission like consenting to wear a BDSM collar. Show your partner it’s their turn to take control in no uncertain terms with one of our fashionable collars, many of which come with their own leashes. Whether you like being led around, or you’d like to lead your partner around for a while, we’ve got the sex play collar to make you holler. Unless hollering is not on the menu, in which case you might also want to look at our selection of ball gags.

Our selection of bondage play accessories leashes come in a variety of colors. Pink and black are wildly popular, but we also have collars in red and grey to choose from. Choose a basic standalone leather collar, one that comes with a matching leash, or one of our sets that might include anything from cuffs to nipple clamps.

Check out the fine details on the Sinful Collar with Leash in black. Glossy, sexy, and functional, this leather collar is comfortably designed longer-term wear and comes with a stylish chain leash. All metal parts are certified nickel-free. For a little shot of color in your bondage collar, try the Red Leash and Collar from Sex and Mischief. This supremely comfortable and durable collar is lined with plushy soft velboa fabric and has a sturdy metal D ring to attach the included red leash to. And the Collar with Nipple Clamps by Sportsheets offers a fully customizable collar experience with a novel twist (or two). For BDSM play at all levels of intensity, even the clamps are adjustable, with screws to quickly change the pinch level as desired until you’ve got it just right. No matter where your sweet spot is — on the gentle side or with a little more bite — you’re sure to love putting this set to work for you.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs) About BDSM Collars

What exactly is a BDSM collar?

Picture a BDSM collar as a symbolic chain that binds a submissive and dominant partner. However, it’s not just an ordinary piece of jewelry; it's a powerful emblem of commitment, devotion, and submission within a BDSM relationship.

Are BDSM collars only for the experienced, or can beginners explore them too?

While some may associate BDSM collars with experienced users, there's no initiation ceremony required to try out bondage sex toys. Start with lighter, more comfortable options and communicate openly with your partner about your desires and boundaries 

Are BDSM collars only worn in the context of a BDSM relationship?

While BDSM collars are often associated with power dynamics within BDSM relationships, their meaning and purpose can extend beyond those boundaries. Some wearers embrace the symbolism of commitment and ownership within their relationships, regardless of the BDSM dynamic.

How do I choose the right BDSM collar for me or my partner?

Start by exploring different styles, materials, and designs, ensuring the BDSM collar you choose aligns with your desires and comfort. Some prefer the elegance of leather, while others may gravitate towards metal or fabric collars.

Can a BDSM collar be worn in public, or is it strictly for private settings?

Whether a BDSM collar can be worn in public depends on your personal preferences and the level of discretion you desire. Some may opt for a discreet “day collar” that resembles fashionable accessories, like an everyday necklace or leather choker. Others may prefer a more serious, “permanent collar” to define their relationship. Either way, it's essential to respect each other's boundaries and the potential reactions of those around you.

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